Why You Can’t Get into Your Own Head: Understanding the Limitations of Self-Awareness

Overcoming the Obstacles to Improved Self-Understanding

Verbum Ludens
4 min readFeb 1, 2023

Self-awareness is a crucial aspect of human consciousness that enables us to reflect on our thoughts, feelings, and actions. It is a fundamental part of our personal growth and development and can help us to understand our motivations, identify areas for improvement, and make positive changes in our lives. However, despite its importance, getting into our own heads can be a difficult and elusive task. In this article, we will explore some of the limitations of self-awareness and why it can be challenging to get into our own heads.

Five Points to Consider

  1. Subjectivity: Our experiences and perspectives are subjective, meaning that they can vary greatly from person to person. This subjectivity can make it challenging to understand what is going on in our own heads, as we may not see things in the same way that others do. For example, two people can experience the same event in vastly different ways and have vastly different interpretations of what happened. This subjectivity can also lead to misunderstandings and conflicts, as our subjective experiences may not align with others.
  2. Bias: Our thoughts and perceptions are…

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